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People-Pleaser...God-Pleaser...

5/15/2011

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Lately, and I’m not really sure why I think it has to do with feeling tired mentally from teaching—so ready for a recharge, I’ve been having bouts with feeling some kind of way about not being able to spend time with girlfriends, friends the way I’d like to. As much as I liked to, I’m often tired and needing to rest because of my schedule with teaching and being with my kiddoes. As I key this, I believe it’s stemming from the fact that I’m not recharging with Him enough…like I’m shifting back into a people pleasing mode, maybe, but like I said really I think I’m just mentally tired, which translates a little to being slightly irritable. People-pleasing was a mode that I had been in for a long time and He’s helping me walk out of that because He truly is the only important factor! Pleasing Him is entirely more beneficial for my future!

This leads to my next thought of people when we don’t respect other people’s time or when we don’t understand them being ‘on their grind,’ which means being fully committed to whatever their vision is. Thinking about it, it’s such a selfish thing for people to do. To take the fact that one is busy being productive and they aren’t as a reason to have an attitude. The self-centered people don’t articulate their thoughts this way, but that is what it essentially boils down to. They’re selfishly focused on their needs, wants, desires, and plans without consideration to anyone else’s. An attitude that is a cover up for what they are or not doing, a cover up for the fact that they don’t have the discipline/drive to pursue what their too afraid to do or lack the confidence to do. Rather than be selfish or jealous, it’s too easy to see what other’s are doing and take it as motivation to pursue their desired dreams, goals. And don’t get me started on when people take Facebook posts as an indicator of what is solely/exclusively going on in one’s life. I mean really some people post EVERYthing on Facebook, but not everyone does that…I don’t know…I sometimes think that if we, as people, considered His Word the way we consider Facebook, how much better off we’d be!

As I’m keying this, I’m really thinking that it all boils down to we as people are seeking something in others/things that can only be filled by our Creator. We truly only find ourselves in Him and only see ourselves when we see ourselves through His eyes—redeemed.

That’s my twenty-nine cents. Blessings.

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Tan
5/18/2011 15:46:18

My Jas...I'm so glad you posted this blog. When I read stories with my students we discuss the stories as being "windows" or "mirrors". "Windows" are those stories that teach us or show us something we've never experienced. "Mirrors" are those stories which we can reflect on and make personal connections to. Reading your blog was a "mirror" experience for me; each paragraph I thought of specific moments and people in my life which coincided with your experiences. Thanks for giving me a more Godly perspective. I love you My Jas!!!!

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Jasmin
5/22/2011 14:16:01

Oh, my gosh my Tan! Reading your post brought tears to my eyes. I'm so grateful to Him for blessing me to talk with you at that very moment last week....doing so encouraged and provoked me to just do it! This makes me realize the importance of being obedient to Him. I love you, my TJS!!!

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10/19/2013 06:45:51

Great blog post.

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